Importance of mother, father, brother and sisters

Father is knowledge/science Mother is meditation/medicine.

If we maintain the equal status of both mother and father with letter and spirit in our hearts then we would actually lead our life peacefully.

As per our elders’ views the ratio of ability of mother and father is 23:24 has been approved by the scion tests. It means that woman is powerful by one number than man. That is why the children have a little bit more love and affection for their mother than father generally. Moreover if we fix hundred marks for the welfare and development of children then according to our elders views eighty marks go to mother and twenty go to father. The woman is five years ahead/advance than man means the woman is a little bit advance by her responsibilities. For example, everyone is aware that when we make arrangements for marriage we always consider the ages of both boy and the girl and always keep in mind that the girl must be of less age than the boy, generally the difference ranges between 1-5 years. No matter that the woman is physically weaker than the man, she is strong. However, the man competes with woman by his knowledge and his ideas.

Two big wars/battles were fought in India long ago where main contention was the woman. Those battles were “Ramayan” and “MahAbbarat”. Ramayan was fought between “Ram” and “Ravan” and MahAbbarat between “Kaurvas” and “Pandvas”.

In the nutshell, the result of their wars is as under:-

Ramayan means, if we do something for other needy human beings without any selfish motive then we get its reward automatically. And if one does something for our own selfish motive then its use would be for his own self and the other needy human beings would not gain any benefit from that deed.

So far as I feel and understand that everyone in this world wants to go forward and wishes to become a rich man but God grants him his rewards according to one’s deeds. For getting good rewards, we should do good deeds and hard work, honestly and sincerely according to our Almighty’s wish. Then we may achieve the goal of peaceful life.

Therefore, the important method(way), is,

(i) we should know who we are?;

(ii) what purpose,God sent us on the earth, and

(iii) what we have to do here?

If we follow and implement the good beliefs then we would be happy.